10
steps you can take to reduce your speech anxiety.
1. Know the room - become familiar
with the place in which you will speak. Arrive early and walk around
the room including the speaking area. Stand at the lectern, speak
into the microphone. Walk around where the audience will be seated.
Walk from where you will be seated to the place where you will be
speaking.
2. Know the Audience - If possible, greet some of
the audience as they arrive and chat with them. It is easier to speak
to a group of friends than to a group of strangers.
3. Know Your Material - If you are not familiar with
your material or are uncomfortable with it, your nervousness will
increase. Practice your speech or presentation and revise it until
you can present it with ease.
4. Learn How to Relax - You can ease tension by doing
exercises. Sit comfortable with your back straight. Breathe in slowly,
hold your breath for 4 to 5 seconds, then slowly exhale. To relax
your facial muscles, open your mouth and eyes wide, then close them
tightly.
5. Visualize Yourself Speaking - Imagine yourself
walking confidently to the lectern as the audience applauds. Imagine
yourself speaking, your voice loud, clear and assured. When you visualize
yourself as successful, you will be successful.
6. Realize People Want You To Succeed - All audiences
want speakers to be interesting, stimulating, informative and entertaining.
They want you to succeed - not fail.
7. Don't apologize For Being Nervous - Most of the
time your nervousness does not show at all. If you don't say anything
about it, nobody will notice. If you mention your nervousness or apologize
for any problems you think you have with your speech, you'll only
be calling attention to it. Had you remained silent, your listeners
may not have noticed at all.
8. Concentrate on Your Message - not the medium -
Your nervous feelings will dissipate if you focus your attention away
from your anxieties and concentrate on your message and your audience,
not yourself.
9. Turn Nervousness into Positive Energy - the same
nervous energy that causes stage fright can be an asset to you. Harness
it, and transform it into vitality and enthusiasm.
10. Gain Experience - Experience builds confidence,
which is the key to effective speaking. Most beginning speakers find
their anxieties decrease after each speech they give.
If the fear of public speaking causes you to prepare more, then the
fear of speaking serves as it's own best antidote.